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A sampler of the other stuff • mantras are spoken or chanted during Tantric sex, the most famous and common one To delay ejaculaTion being om mani padme hum. Mani means • find themillion dollar Point: One of the oldest “thunderbolt” (referring to his penis), padme means “lotus” (vagina), and hum is the highest Taoist techniques involves pressing the “Million Dollar Point” while he contracts his PC muscle form of enlightenment. Tantrikas chant to (the one you’d use to stop yourself from urinating). awaken sexual energy and to mimic the This helps delay ejaculation by interrupting the energy vibration of the universe. ejaculatory reflex. This technique is best mastered • The fivem’s or pancamakara appears, by him initially. Ideally, guys, you’d push your finger inside your anus, up to the first joint, searching for a on the surface, to be hedonistic heaven—a small indentation. The squeamish could try to find it feast followed by an orgy (now we’re talking!). by pressing it externally through the perineum (the The first four involve eating and drinking aphrodisiacs. The fifth is maithuna—ritualistic area between the testicles and anus). • do afinger lock: When you’re hovering close to sex that allows you to experience “higher” a spill-the-seed moment, press the three middle pleasure while your body’s still digesting the fingers of your strongest hand into the Million Dollar physical type. If you were a man who lived in Point, hard enough to stop the flow of semen. (Do it (glorious) times past, you might have had maithuna with over 100 women a night. The externally, pushing on the perineum.) You’re basically pushing your middle finger against the urethral tube, point of this, however, wasn’t to boast to your which swells when close to ejaculation, making it friends later, but to surpass mortal pleasure and easier to find. The other fingers press on each side reach a form of connection through performing of the tube to hold it in place. Once you’ve done specific ritualistic sex. People moved very little this, contract your PC muscle and “draw” your during these acts, possibly because the vaginal orgasmic energy up to the spine and to your brain. secretion was collected from the woman’s (Yes, you possibly will take a few attempts to get the genitals afterward and mixed with a bowl of hang of that last part.) Hold your fingers in place until water. This was offered to the gods; later, the the contractions and pumping stop completely. man drank the water, completing the circle. If you’re a very good boy and practice a LOT, you To keep things simple, try these: For eventually can rely purely on a mind technique called “the big draw” to stop ejaculation. You will, harmonious sex, press similar body parts understandably, lose your erection after doing the together—lips to lips, hands to hands, genitals Finger Lock. But that’s sort of the point, and it will to genitals. For excitement and stimulation, return with a vengeance before you can say, press dissimilar body parts together—mouth to “Oops! Time to do another Finger Lock.” genitals, mouth to breast, penis to anus, etc.

HIPPY TRIPPY SEX 150 The 10 all-time-best show-off sex positions LEGGING IT Inspired by the Kama Sutra, this position is suitable for the “highest congress”—meaning the vagina is fully open to allow for maximum penetration. She is fully exposed, showing her “wet and longing” parts to her partner, which can be one hell of a turn-on for both of you. He has a great view, watching his penis move in and out. You can’t kiss because your faces can’t get close, which ups the erotic tension and makes you concentrate solely on penetration.

2 T H E 10 A L L-T I M E - B E S T S H O W - O F F S E X P O S I T I O N S 151 THE TANTRIC MELT A version of a Tantric sitting posture, this ensures you’ll “be as one” by “dissolving” into each other. Eye contact combined with close torsos makes it intimate, and you can practice synchronizing your breath (if it appeals!). Interestingly, this pose puts both of you in a power position. She’s on top, so can control the rhythm, speed, and depth of thrusting, but she’s also effectively sitting in his lap, which is a traditionally submissive female pose. If she sat higher and rested her thighs in the crook of his elbow, he could lift her, taking complete control.

3 HIPPY TRIPPY SEX 152 SIDE STRADDLE A pose with significance, the shape of this pose replicates a specific pattern the ancient Chinese used when fusing two pieces of jade together. She lies on her side, bending one leg at the knee and drawing it upward. He kneels behind her, straddling her side-on, and entering her at a sideways angle, holding her shoulder to keep her in place. It’s precise positioning, which gets you both in the mood for controlled, disciplined sex. A rival to the Kama Sutra, The Perfumed Garden details six movements—like “bucket in the well”—to try during intercourse.